I decided to get rid of texting a few months ago because I really don't use it that often now that I have a SMART phone. I use AIM and Google Talk to do most of what I would do for text messaging and that's included in my Data Plan. And I have access to my e-mail, so I can always be reached. In order to text message my friends who do not have such plans, I either go to their provider's website and send a text message (there are so many other places to do this also) or I use Google's Chat feature to text message.
As more and more people use text messaging, I think it is essential to be aware of some simple suggestions:
1. Make sure someone has a text messaging plan or that they are ok receiving text messages. Some people block receiving text messages at all in order to avoid high expenses. Other people are ok receiving an occasional text message, but don't over do it if they don't have a plan.
2. If you realize you have a bunch of text messages going back and forth with the same person and you can pick up the phone, then do i. Well, if you are talking to middle school-college student, you might only be able to communicate with them through text messaging.
3. During a meeting, if you are going to text, make sure you are not obvious about it.
4. Think about how you respond. Be careful about your wording because like any other written communication. If your "tone" is not interpretted correctly, it could cause hard feelings with your correspondent.
5. Do not text while the car is in motion and you are driving. You need to pay attention to the road.
6. Texting is a great way to share information or communicate quickly. It's not an appropriate place to give bad news or break up with someone.
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